Below are all 8 pages of my 2021 Thrive Plan. This is the guide I use for setting and reviewing goals. The philosophy behind each section is taught in my digital course, You Deserve to Thrive. Click here to schedule a complimentary strategy session to discuss the changes you want to create in your life.
My Why
What is your why?
My why is to passionately and boldly build relationships to motivate others to live out their own purpose in life and learn to love themselves and others unconditionally.
Legacy
Write your eulogy. What do you want said about you after you are gone?
Sophia Hyde was an inspiration to many. She led by example that life is simultaneously messy and beautiful. She was bold, authentic and generous.
You need only spend five minutes with Sophia to know that her greatest passions in life were her family, pursuing her dreams, and encouraging others to follow theirs. She believed to her core that every human was beautiful and had the power to birth any dream inside of them if given the right tools, knowledge and resources.
She dedicated her life to empowering and equipping others. Nothing fired her up more than witnessing someone who had a hunger for more. She donated much of her life to speaking for those who needed a louder voice and allocating the right connections and resources to provide a launching pad for others.
Sophia was never afraid to raise her hand or insert herself into a conversation that mattered. When she was met with criticism, she used it as motivation to lean in more intensely on her mission.
Her children describe her as kind and patient. She was always a safe space for them to be themselves and be met without judgment.
She instilled the core values of kindness and growth in her home. While she definitely preached it, she knew the only way to teach it was to lead by example. She modeled for her family daily what it looks like to step outside your comfort zone, develop healthier habits and improve yourself.
When we remember Sophia, may we always be inspired to tap into the voice inside that is calling us to something greater and to follow where it leads.
Five Year Vision
I am so happy and grateful now that…
I have created a large community of individuals who are excited about helping each other fulfill their dreams and callings. I am bursting with gratitude and joy as I daily watch people overcome the fear and guilt that held them back from stepping into their greatness. People are supporting one another, learning the value of self-care, and contributing to the world in ways they never dreamt were within their reach.
My income can support our family, and I have been able to hire a team to help me run this community. It brings be great pride to create an employee package that values autonomy, flexibility and a healthy work/life balance.
I have a robust speaking schedule where being in front of crowds and communities, both online and in person, is a normal part of my routine.
Brandon is able to selectively choose which projects to work on, which is helping him have more time at home and further grow his career.
Since my business is not location based, we are able to move wherever we would like to live.
We have a six month emergency fund in the bank. We purchased our next home, which is a 4 bedroom home with a bonus and office space. It has a pool, a great storage area for Brandon’s gear, and a beautiful back yard with large windows so I can easily watch the children play.
I drive a Toyota Sienna and plan my work schedule around my children’s schedules. I work 25 hours a week, which gives me the time and flexibility to prioritize my self-care and the children’s activities and needs.
I am in the best health of my entire life. I feel strong and energized. I am so grateful that I finally decided to make myself a priority in my own life.
We have several trips currently planned on the calendar, both domestic trips for the family and an international trip for Brandon and me.
Mental Spoke
What does my mental spoke at a 9 look like?
I have a positive attitude every day. When something upsets me, I am easily able to pause, process and release it. I am able to stay calm and level headed in times of stress. When I walk into a room, I expect other people to rise up to my vibration and do not fall for the temptation to meet theirs if it is lower.
What is your goal for this spoke by the end of 2021?
To go on a walk every single day
What are the problems that will be solved by achieving this goal?
It is the best medicine for both my brain and my mood. I am less likely to have a bad attitude, mope, or feel overwhelm if I have had my daily walk.
What are the three habits that will best help me?
1. Put on my workout clothes first thing in the morning and drive straight to the track after I drop off the kids. (On weekends, take the kids on a walk after breakfast)
2. The family morning and evening rituals are posted on the fridge and used as a guide every day.
3. Daily reading, whether by physical, kindle or audiobook allows me to continue to grow and learn
Spiritual Spoke
What does my spiritual spoke at a 9 look like?
I feel very grounded and in tune with the flow of where God is leading me. I feel peace in my spirit regardless of any chaos that may be around me.
What is your goal for this spoke by the end of 2021?
To spend at least five minutes each day in meditation reflecting on my values.
What are the problems that will be solved by achieving this goal?
Deep breath work calms the nervous system, so it will be easier for me to hear and listen to my inner knowing. Reflecting daily on my values will help me make better decisions every day and live in integrity.
What are the three habits that will best help me?
1. When I park the car after returning from my walk, I sit in the car for five minutes to do my meditation before I begin my day. (On weekends, I take five minutes in the bedroom before I get in the shower)
2. Protecting Sundays as a day of rest and remaining “task free” allows my mind, body and spirit to rest and recover
3. I do not initiate gossip. When I hear gossip, I actively redirect the conversation.
Physical Spoke
What does my physical spoke at a 9 look like?
My blood tests all come back with very healthy reports. I feel strong in my body and have high energy.
What is your goal for this spoke by the end of 2021?
To get my blood work done twice. Once in August to see where I am and again in December to assess my progress.
What are the problems that will be solved by achieving this goal?
By making many small decisions each day to keep my body healthy, I will be able to live a high quality of life and maintain my health. I will significantly decrease my chances of many diseases or ailments.
What are the three habits that will best help me?
1. I get a full night’s rest every night.
2. I prioritize exercise every day.
3. I plan my food at least 24 hours in advance so that I am proactive, not reactive, in how I fuel my body.
Family Spoke
What does my family spoke at a 9 look like?
The relationships with all members of my family are strong. I feel a close connection to my family and prioritize spending time together. As a mother, I am intentional with how I am parenting my children and am meeting their needs in a way that will best help them grow up to be an independent, thriving adult who is contributing to the world in a positive way.
What is your goal for this spoke by the end of 2021?
To set aside Sundays for task-free days and soak in family time together.
What are the problems that will be solved by achieving this goal?
I will not allow the busy-ness of life to distract from what matters most to me.
What are the three habits that will best help me?
1. On Mon-Sat I set aside the appropriate amount of time for work and chores so nothing has to bleed into Sundays.
2. I put my phone away when I am with my family so I can be most present when we are together.
3. I am intentional with asking more questions and doing more listening, so I can be actively engaged in their lives.
Financial Spoke
What does my financial spoke at a 9 look like?
We are independently wealthy. Between real estate and investments, we have created an income stream that allows us the peace of mind to know that our financial needs are covered regardless of that month or year’s business performance. This freedom allows us to travel more, spend more time with family and friends, and take risks in our careers with less fear.
What is your goal for this spoke by the end of 2021?
To save $40,000. $30,000 to finish off the 6-month emergency fund and $10,000 to pay for a minivan.
What are the problems that will be solved by achieving this goal?
We do not have the investment portfolio we want because we have not completed these financial goals. Having a strong investment portfolio will help us create stability, security and retirement.
What are the three habits that will best help me grow?
1. Syncing the budget daily in YNAB
2. Prioritizing in my calendar income producing activity over activities that make me feel busy but not help my business or myself grow
3. Investing 15% of our income each month
Personal/Self-Care Spoke
What does my self-care spoke at a 9 look like?
Because I take care of myself and my needs, I have the capacity to give in abundance to others. I guard myself against the things that drain my energy, and I am intentional about surrounding myself with the things that leave me feeling restored and rejuvenated.
What is your goal for this spoke by the end of 2021?
This one overlaps with mental and physical. The most important self-care to me right now is establishing the consistent morning walk and getting an idea of where my health is.
What are the problems that will be solved by achieving this goal?
The better I take care of myself, the better I can take care of my family, my clients and my community.
What are the three habits that will best help me grow?
1. I am intentional to build time with my friends into my calendar and routines. Whether through text, phone or in person, I am regularly investing in my friendships.
2. During my weekly calendar planning on Mondays, I ask myself what I most need to feel restoration. Then, I block time for it on my calendar.
3. I have healthy boundaries in every area of my life to protect me from exhaustion and burn out.
Career Spoke
What does my career spoke at a 9 look like?
I have created a thriving community of individuals who are seeking growth. The tools I have created, the coaching I offer, and the team I have put together is able to empower them with the resources they need to achieve their goals. My business is grossing seven figures each fiscal year, and my team is happy, thriving and fulfilled in their roles within the company.
What is your goal for this spoke by the end of 2021?
I will have 50 individuals enrolled in my program by the end of the year.
What are the problems that will be solved by achieving this goal?
Currently, our income covers our monthly expenses. Filling up my coaching practice will allow us to finish our six month emergency fund and pay cash for my minivan.
What are the three habits that will best help me grow?
1. I schedule at least one speaking engagement, podcast interview or other public forum event each week to meet new people
2. I fill out my planner every day to keep me focused on the highest priorities
3. I am committed to my biweekly phone calls with my coach and my accountability group to keep me on track and following through on the goals I set.
This Quarter (July, Aug, Sept)
The 1-3 habits I am hyper-focused on tracking and adopting are:
1. The family morning and evening rituals are posted on the fridge and used as a guide every day (Mental and family, but bleeds into every spoke)
2. I fill out my planner every day to keep me focused on the highest priorities (Career, but bleeds into every spoke)
3. Exercising every day, even if just a walk (Physical and Mental spoke)